Exclusive to NWN, Iris Ophelia's take on etiquette and ethics in virtual spaces
This week I'm answering four festive questions, just in time for the holidays:
My SL family wants me to spend time with them on Christmas day, but I think I should be with my RL family. What should I do?
- Home-Position for the Holidays
What you should do really depends on how close your are with your SL family. While I know some people might balk at the idea of spending precious holiday time with a "pretend family", relationships developed over the Internet are increasingly being recognized as real relationships. And why not? The bond between us is more mental than physical, so it makes sense that tangible relationships can develop in worlds completely free of physical presence. You should feel free to spend the holidays with friends and family whether they're on or offline. Consider very carefully who you're closest to, and the impact those relationships have on your life. Just like juggling different sides of your family, those that you're closest to should take priority, but for the other sides of the family, you can set up a time to all get together, like the day before or after Christmas. Even if you don't feel as close to your SL family as that, getting together on the 24th or the 26th is a good compromise that should be able to keep everyone happy without cutting into the festivities.
Keep reading for three more Christmas quandaries!