A scientific study on reader comments to online articles revealed a very interesting thing -- uncivil, nasty comments poison the perception of the article itself:
Half the people saw the article with (invented) polite, civil and constructive comments. The other half was given the same article but with uncivil comments – essentially a flame-war in the fake commenting thread... [which] polarized the opinion of readers, leading them to misunderstand the original article.
Emphasis mine. After about ten (!) years of blogging, I've suspected something like this phenomena was the case, which is why comments on New World Notes are moderated by a "cocktail party" standard. They're pretty simple: If what you're about to write is something that would be considered rude or boorish at a cocktail party, best to think about rephrasing.
They're all moments and choices we have in life.
Posted by: cube republic | Tuesday, January 29, 2013 at 01:06 PM
I've never been to a cocktail party. Is throwing your drink in somebody's face off-limits? I've always wanted to do that. I can do the basilisk stare, but some people are utterly impervious to it and scathing sarcasm goes right over their perfectly-coiffed heads. The alcohol facial looks like a viable option.
Posted by: Arcadia Codesmith | Tuesday, January 29, 2013 at 01:13 PM
what if the article itself is considered worthy of the rude chucked at it? like is deserving of a cocktailing full credit. or a sausage roll. or something. like anything
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Posted by: elizabeth (16) | Tuesday, January 29, 2013 at 07:38 PM
Yay cocktails! I'll bring the Molotovs :)
Posted by: Fleabite | Thursday, January 31, 2013 at 08:32 AM